I own crane, volvo and arocs, and respecting everything you said about default reasons, pricing, etc., this is my view of those sets:
volvo:
This set's only advantage is RC, which is very big advantage if you're into RC models. The building experience is good, but definitely not so good as with other two sets.
Since it is RC, which means lot of motors for every function, it isn't so interesting from mechanical point of view. B model doesn't really offer much in comparison to A.
crane:
For me probably best set ever. Great building experience, mechanically very complex. B model is by far best B model i have seen. It is conceptually very different from A, which is not something we see very often
with lego, and also provides lot of playability, probably more than A model.
arocs:
i said for crane that is "probably" best set ever, because i still can't decide between crane and arocs. Crane is much more mechanically complex, but arocs have suspension, and of course, pneumatics, and both of them are great.
B model is interesting as a final product (it is also very large), but cabin is literally identical to A, and crane is almost identical, so it doesn't actually offer much. It has, although, interesting outrigger system.
I don't have unimog, but what i can see there is probably no reason to go for it instead of arocs, since they have similar functionalities.
So, my conclusion would be:
Go for volvo only if you like RC.
Go for crane if you like mechanically challenging, contraption-like build, using lot of gears.
Go for arocs if you like pneumatics and suspensions.
Since all the sets are great, definitely take into consideration your own preference for loaders vs cranes vs trucks.